How to handle rejection from a woman

My girlfriends and I discuss this in full length in my program What’s Inside A Woman ’s Mind. We reveal exactly how the right man will handle rejection and how little mistake will ruin your chances forever. Accept her answer politely. It is either she says.

Are you taking it personally?

Why does a woman reject you? What is the best way to handle rejection? How do I get my mind off the rejection? What to do when a woman rejects you?

Many times you can push a women into auto rejection by not listening to her or being receptive to her input in a conversation. In other terms this is when a woman shuts down and begins busting your balls extra hard. Other times a woman could go to the bathroom and never come back.

Remember the movie Shallow Hal? Girls and Guys all react differently some only see with their eyes and there are some that see with their hearts. Handling rejection is something that you should never be afraid of.

It helps you grow and evolve into the person that you will become. Hell rejection happens all the time. Pick yourself up and tell the next guy the same thing, even if it.

See full list on how. Depending on where your head is at, this type of rejection can come as quite a blow. Luckily these rude dismissals are rare and your response to them is a no-brainer. You just smile, laugh, and say “amazing”. Show her – and yourself – that you find her rudeness to be cute and amusing.

For instance she’ll talk to you for a sec and then be like, “y’know what I’ve got to run, nice talking to you” and then she leaves. I find it’s tough to turn these situations aroun because if she’s rejected you in this way, it means you’re not making her feel good – and when she’s out to have fun, she wants to feel. An incongruent rejection occurs when you were talking to a girl who seemed into you but then she tells you that it’s a “no-go”. Maybe she’ll tell you that she has got a boyfriend or that you just aren’t her type.

This kind of rejection is actually one of the most difficult for guys to deal with because just when you think you are gonna get somewhere with a girl it feels like you got the rug pulled out from under you.

My suggestion when you meet with this kind of rejection is to push on and keep. You’ve gotten to know her, and maybe even taken her on a date or two. Then she comes around and tells you she’s “just not that into you”Usually, this is because her initial feelings about you have changed. She had a good impression, but then you got needy, or insecure, or you weren’t as fun or sexy as she thought. I’ve coached so many men who refuse to approach or escalate things with a woman they want.

Here’s how it works: 1. It’s SO sa because I promise you: she’s waiting for you to escalate. And look – if you don’t escalate, then you’ll end up in the friend zone anyway… it’s pretty much like rejecting yourself. So don’t let negative self-talk defeat you. Go for what you want – you only have one life to live, and if you let fear and self-doubt keep you from going for what you want, you’re missing out on some of the best expe.

Its very simple yet very difficult to realize but is the perfect solution to dealing with it. Rejection Early in Your Life. Some people do not handle rejection well because they were rejected in a variety of ways as a child.

Whether it’s your first or your thousandth rejection, learning how to deal with it every time it comes, will save you the trouble of getting stuck in a downward spiral. Always be polite and accept things calmly. When you can still make her smile after a rejection, it shows your mettle as a man. Work on the value that you’re bringing to the table yourself.

Even though we’ve experienced it a hundred times, each rejection is a new wound. Practical steps for dealing with rejection. Tell yourself it will go because it really will. Keep reminding yourself that this is only temporary and that you might be even thankful for. Engage in physical activities.

Play tennis or take a class at a local gym. Physical activity forces us to. You can laugh, pretend to cry, shrug your shoulders, and continue to the next girl. If you allow it to stick to you, you’ll put yourself in a negative moo and that’s the end of the night for you. Robert and Lisa Firestone have both written extensively about the role of a person’s “critical inner voice” in coloring the way they see the world.

The point is to get yourself thinking about other women. As you start to feel yourself again, pick up a few books on courting and dating to see if you can learn something about making yourself more attractive to women. Ask female friends and relatives if they have any suggestions for you. Instea start treating her like.

Don’t get bitchy or needy about it. You start “framing” her as sexually inexperienced. You have the “Shades of Grey”. If you do this as I teach, then she’ll want to prove to you that.